How to Message Another User

schedule Updated January 2025 person By Support Team access_time 3 min read

Connecting with other users through direct messages is a great way to build relationships and engage with the community. This guide will show you how to send messages, manage conversations, and use messaging features effectively.

Finding Users to Message

From User Profiles

  1. Navigate to the user's profile by clicking on their username or profile picture
  2. You can find users through:
    • Video comments and interactions
    • User search functionality
    • Recommended users section
    • Community features
  3. Look for the "Message" button on their profile

Through Search

  1. Use the search bar at the top of the page
  2. Type the username or display name you're looking for
  3. Filter results to show "Users" instead of videos
  4. Click on the user's profile from the search results

Sending Your First Message

Starting a New Conversation

  1. From the user's profile, click the "Message" button
  2. A message compose window will open
  3. Type your message in the text box
  4. Click "Send" or press Enter

Message Composition Tips

  • Be respectful: Start with a friendly greeting
  • Be clear: State your purpose or reason for messaging
  • Be concise: Keep initial messages brief and to the point
  • Personalize: Reference something from their profile or content
Example: "Hi [Name]! I really enjoyed your recent video about [topic]. I had a question about [specific detail]. Would love to hear your thoughts!"

Managing Your Messages

Accessing Your Message Inbox

  1. Click on the message icon in the top navigation bar
  2. You'll see a list of all your conversations
  3. Unread messages will be highlighted or marked with a notification badge
  4. Click on any conversation to open it

Message Features

  • Text Messages: Send plain text communications
  • Emojis: Add emojis to express emotions
  • Links: Share URLs (may be subject to moderation)
  • Read Receipts: See when your messages have been read
  • Typing Indicators: See when someone is typing a response

Message Etiquette and Best Practices

Do's

  • Introduce yourself: Especially for first-time messages
  • Be patient: Users may not respond immediately
  • Respect boundaries: If someone doesn't respond, don't spam
  • Stay on topic: Keep conversations relevant and appropriate
  • Use proper language: Avoid excessive slang or inappropriate content

Don'ts

  • Don't spam: Avoid sending multiple messages if you don't get a response
  • Don't share personal info: Keep sensitive information private
  • Don't harass: Respect others' comfort levels and boundaries
  • Don't send inappropriate content: Follow community guidelines
  • Don't use messages for advertising: Unless explicitly welcomed

Privacy and Safety Features

Message Privacy Settings

Control who can message you:

  1. Go to "Account Settings""Privacy"
  2. Find the "Messages" section
  3. Choose from these options:
    • Everyone: Anyone can send you messages
    • Followers Only: Only users you follow back can message you
    • Friends Only: Only confirmed friends can message you
    • No One: Disable messaging entirely

Blocking and Reporting Users

If someone is bothering you:

  1. Open the conversation with the problematic user
  2. Click the settings menu (three dots) in the conversation
  3. Select "Block User" to prevent further messages
  4. Select "Report User" if they've violated community guidelines

Message Filtering

  • Spam Detection: Automatic filtering of suspicious messages
  • Keyword Filtering: Set up filters for unwanted content
  • Link Protection: Warning system for suspicious links

Advanced Messaging Features

Message Search

  1. In your message inbox, use the search bar
  2. Search by:
    • Username or display name
    • Message content keywords
    • Date ranges
  3. Results will show matching conversations and messages

Message Organization

  • Mark as Read/Unread: Organize your message status
  • Delete Conversations: Remove old or unwanted message threads
  • Archive Messages: Store old conversations without deleting
  • Pin Important Chats: Keep frequent conversations at the top

Troubleshooting Common Issues

Can't Send Messages

If you're unable to send messages:

  • Check recipient's privacy settings: They may not accept messages from everyone
  • Verify your account status: New accounts may have messaging restrictions
  • Check for blocks: The user may have blocked you previously
  • Review community guidelines: Ensure you haven't violated messaging rules

Messages Not Delivering

  • Check your internet connection: Poor connection can cause delivery issues
  • Refresh the page: Sometimes messages need a page refresh to send
  • Check message length: Very long messages may fail to send
  • Try again later: Server issues can cause temporary problems

Can't Find Message Feature

  • Account level restrictions: Some features require premium membership
  • Regional limitations: Messaging may not be available in all regions
  • Age restrictions: Younger users may have limited messaging capabilities
  • Technical issues: Clear browser cache and try again

Mobile App Messaging

Using Messages on Mobile

  1. Open the mobile app
  2. Tap the message icon in the bottom navigation
  3. Tap "New Message" to start a conversation
  4. Search for the user you want to message
  5. Tap their name and start typing your message

Mobile-Specific Features

  • Push Notifications: Get notified of new messages instantly
  • Quick Reply: Respond directly from notifications
  • Voice Messages: Send audio messages (if available)
  • Photo Sharing: Share images directly from your camera or gallery

Safety Reminder

Always prioritize your safety when messaging other users:

  • Never share personal information like your address, phone number, or financial details
  • Be cautious of users asking to move conversations to other platforms
  • Report any inappropriate or harassing behavior immediately
  • Trust your instincts - if something feels wrong, block the user and report them